Tribute: The Starlet That Wore Pants Thursday, Jun 22 2006 

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Katharine Houghton Hepburn
1907 – 2003

My earliest memory of this feisty woman, that I would come to know as Katharine Hepburn, came as I watched Little Women. I found her to be fascinating. She was unlike other actresses of her time. She was loud, opinionated and utterly charming all the while. I soon found that I was not alone in my opinions. Millions more adored her too.

Katharine’s parents taught her to be independent, to discuss the deep issues and to speak her mind. They lived by those same principals. They lived in a stately home in Connecticut where her father, Dr. Thomas Hepburn was a successful urologist. Her mother Katharine (Kit) was heavily involved in women’s suffrage and family planning issues Mrs. Hepburn co-founded Planned Parenthood. Their dinners were loud and informative. Her parents encouraged lively debates nightly among her five brothers and sisters.

Her brother Tom Hepburn was two years older, the eldest child in the family. When Katharine was fifteen years old she found him hanging in the barn. She was never able to believe he had committed suicide. Years later she would admit to being two years younger than she had always claimed to be. She had taken her brother Tom’s birth date as her own to honor him. It was an event that she never recovered from entirely.

Dr. Hepburn insisted on his children being athletic. Katharine excelled at sports. She was adept at swimming, golf, tennis and figure skating. She once won a bronze medal in Figure skating from the Madison Square Garden figure skating club. Swimming and golf were sports she remained involved in heavily throughout her life. She would continue to swim in the frigid waters in Connecticut until well into her eighties. Sometimes breaking the ice to do so. She believed it kept her healthy.

While attending Bryn Mawr College, she met her future husband, Ludlow (“Luddy”) Ogden Smith. They married in 1928 when she finished college. She had achieved degrees in history and philosophy. That same year she landed a bit part on Broadway in Night Hostess. As an aspiring actress, she did not want to be know as Kate Smith. There was already a entertainer with that name. She demanded that her husband change his name. He became S. Ogden Ludlow. In the end Katharine decided to use her Maiden name. Their marriage was rocky from the start. Katharine would later say that marriage is an unnatural state. She is known to have once quipped, “Women and Men should live separately and visit often.” She believed every word to be true. They divorced six years after they married. Katharine would never marry again.

The four Oscars and twelve nominations she earned throughout her extensive career are proof of how much she was loved as an actress. One would never believe that in the early stages of her career she was blacklisted and labeled “box office poison”. Ever resilient, Katharine left Hollywood and return to Broadway until she could stage a comeback. Upon her return, she auditioned for a major film titled, A Bill Of Divorcement. In true Hepburn fashion, she demanded an outlandish $1,500 per week for film work. She had been earning just eighty dollars a week. After seeing her screen test, studio executives agreed to her demands.

In the 1930’s, with backing from her ex-boyfriend Howard Hughes, she bought the rights to a play she had starred in. Her performance in that film, The Philadelphia Story would bring her an Oscar nomination. Women of the time just didn’t do such things as that. Women didn’t buy stories and have them made; they dutifully did as they were told.

Defying tradition was the norm for Ms. Hepburn. She was outspoken in defense of herself, but also in defense of others. If she saw something that was unfair, she made sure to voice her opinion. She was gifted with a classic patrician beauty, and was a favorite with directors in spite of what they considered to be her loud mouth.

In 1942 she fell in love with Spencer Tracy. It was a controversial affair. He was a married man. They met while starring in the film Woman Of The Year. Their relationship would last until his death thirty years later. His strict Roman Catholic beliefs prevented him for divorcing his wife. It was agreed that they would be as discreet as possible out of respect for his wife. Katharine was content to be the love of his life. They would go on to become the most beloved couple in film, starring together in nine movies throughout their careers. Spencer Tracy is said to be the only person in her life that could quiet her. She literally sat at his feet gazing up at him as he spoke. Their chemistry on screen and off was captivating to see. Even the many critics who condemned them were won over by their deep affection for each other.

Just days after completing the film Guess Who’s Coming To Dinner, Spencer Tracy died. Out of respect for his wife and family, she did not attend his funeral. Ms. Hepburn always maintained that she never watched the film. It was just too painful.

Men loved this beautiful woman on the screen. Women admired her strength. They wanted to be as brash as she was. Her ability to not worry what others thought of her was envied. She wore pants almost exclusively long before it was the fashion to do so. Her reputation as an often-cantankerous star never bothered her. It was, in her opinion, very near sighted to object to strong women speaking their mind. It would not be possible for her to be any less; she was raised to be just as she was. She wouldn’t apologize for it.

Ms. Hepburn once said of her early ambition: “I didn’t have any desire to be an actress or to learn how to act. I just wanted to be famous.” The limelight thrilled her. Yet she wasn’t known to steal it. She often stood up for lesser-known actors. On the set of Adam’s Rib, she refused a close-up because the other female lead should have been featured. Her generosity was legendary. In an interview with Christopher Reeve he stated, “She used to say to me, “Be fascinating, Christopher,” and I’d say, “Well, that’s easy for you. The rest of us have to work at it.” She was fascinating to everyone who knew her.

In all the years of televised Oscar award shows, she only appeared once. To give a lifetime achievement award away. If she was the winner, someone else always accepted for her. One such award stayed in the paper bag that she suggested storing it in, on her living room table for over ten years. It meant little to her to be accepted in such a way. She would have been more impressed by an award for her character, not her acting.

While she was always somewhat reclusive away from cameras she became more so as she aged. Her home in Old Saybrook, Connecticut became her haven. Friends were frequently invited in, but Katharine rarely left home. Her gardens, hobbies and friends became her only outlets. She was also an avid painter and sculptor. A bust she sculpted of Spencer Tracy was used in their last film together.

She had never wanted to have children. She believed that she would have been a terrible mother. Her siblings gave her nieces and nephews; they adored her and visited often. Several of them have followed in her footsteps and are actors today.

She was 96 years old when she died of natural causes. In honor of her extensive theater work, the bright lights of Broadway were dimmed for an hour. Lauren Bacall said of her friend; “Time with her was more than time well spent. A little bit with her was worth days and weeks and months with somebody else.”

Annie Thomas- Burke

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Tribute: Almost Heaven Saturday, Jun 17 2006 

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Almost Heaven

 

John Denver

 

Henry John Deutschendorf Jr.

 

1943 –1997

 

     Most of us know his name, we know he was a singer, but lesser known was his life as an environmentalist and a humanitarian. Yes, he was a great singer and entertainer. We know he loved the Rocky Mountains. It is a fact that in his lifetime he recorded and released nearly 300 songs, about 140 of which he had written. He was so much more than a singer and songwriter. His work touched and changed a world.

     He was a rare and wonderful combination of gifted performer and an extraordinary man who cared deeply for the environment. In 1976 he co-founded Windstar Foundation, an environmental organization. The non-profit environmental education and research center strives for a healthy future for the world. He felt his celebrity would draw greater visibility to the environmental causes he championed.

     In 1977 President Jimmy Carter asked him to serve as a member of the President’s Commission on World and Domestic Hunger. He took it one step further and personally co-founded The Hunger Project. Continuing his commitment to the people of the world.

     The child of an Air Force family, his upbringing included moving to various cities in the southwest. He was a shy awkward child who kept to himself. At a young age his grandmother gave him a Gibson acoustic guitar. It became an extension of his body as he carried it wherever he went. He wrote his first song shortly after receiving it. This simple song titled, A Lazy Little Stream, gave birth to his merging of music and nature that would become his trademark style.

    As a young man, while attending Texas Tech University, he began performing in local clubs. His popularity grew quickly, which encouraged him to quit school much to his parent’s dismay. He auditioned for and became a member of The Mitchell Trio as their acoustic guitarist. Friends encouraged him to change his name so it would fit on record labels. He adopted the name Denver in honor of the home he loved.

     The Mitchell Trio’s popularity decreased and John decided to go solo. He bravely moved to Los Angeles. Still shy, he spent many days writing alone while performing in small clubs in the evenings to pay the bills. His big break came when Peter, Paul and Mary recorded a song he wrote called Leaving on a Jet Plane. He was on his way.

     His gentle, environmentally conscious music established him as a beloved folk singer of the 70’s to most people, while others panned his work as saccharine and dull. His fan base grew nonetheless, and in time his work would bring him world-renowned fame. Even those who criticized him knew his songs by heart. There was just something about his music that drew people in. A kindness we all longed for in music and in the world. We found it in his music gratefully.

     Ever present on his mind was his love for his home and family. He met and married Annie in 1967, and they brought two children into their lives and moved back to Colorado to raise them. John’s music continued to speak fondly of his home and the people there. 

     As his fame grew, he paid little attention to the hype. He continued his work for The Windstar Foundation, as well as established a new venture, Windsong Recording. His environmental causes continued to consume him more than his celebrity. This would remain true for the rest of his life. He balanced both aspects of his life with an ease that those around him admired.

     Jim Henson, the puppeteer and creator of the Muppets, became one of John’s best friends. John agreed to perform on Jim’s new Muppets show against the advice of others. It was said that it would only encourage his critics to see him as too sweet. He did it anyway. It was something John would continue to do whenever he was asked. He loved children and they were drawn to him. Each of his televisions specials featured children gazing admirably up as they watched him sing. This was true for adults as well. He touched us like few entertainers did. We believed in goodness through him.

     While he successfully maintained parallel careers as an entertainer and a humanitarian, he also added television and feature film acting to his resume. His soft-spoken gentle manner transferred to film well and those efforts too, brought acclaim. It was as if he couldn’t lose.

    As his overwhelming fame lessened, he gladly settled into a quieter life. Shortly thereafter the world was saddened to learn of his divorce from Annie. John was said to be devastated and withdrew to his home. He took up golf, and often gave his time to participate in golf tournament benefits.

     Few knew he was also an avid painter. When his travels took him from his easel, he brought along his cameras. His first photography showing was a benefit for the Windstar Foundation.

      John remarried a singer named Cassandra Delaney and they had a daughter together. That marriage too, would be ill fated. He had been a pilot since the 70’s and returned to it with a flourish. He had always been in love with being in the clouds. It brought home to him the need to protect our environment. His work as a champion for nature took on an increased importance. 

     John continued appearing on the television specials of other celebrities as well as hosting his own. He cast a spell among his viewers. We had no choice but to be taken in. He won many awards in his career. His music garnered fourteen gold albums and eight platinum albums in the U.S alone. In 1996 John was thrilled to be inducted into the Songwriters’ Hall of Fame.

     Today, millions of fans remain entranced by his work. His music is more relevant than ever before as our world continues to need what he stood for. His humanitarian work continues to strengthen our world and lives on after him. He gave us many gifts during his time here. His life should be an inspiration to us all.

     He died doing what he loved, soaring among the clouds. It was his wish to die doing what he loved. While we are saddened at the loss of him, we are fortunate to have the work he left behind. It was always meant to be his gift to us. His voice continues to encourage us to take care of the world we live in, and the people in it. 

 

Annie Thomas-Burke

Tribute: My Best Friend Was My Sister Saturday, Jun 17 2006 

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My Best Friend Was My Sister

 

Barbara Ledy Ann Butts-Sewell

1954 – 2004

 

     As a child my sister Barbara found a stranded baby bird. She carried it around for days in a shoebox, stopping frequently to feed it from an eyedropper. She was pulled by an inner kindness to rescue animals. Later in life, she did the same for children. This is who my sister was. It is the loss of her gentle nature that makes her death the most devastating event in my life.

     We were born into a large family and sadly we experienced early tragedy in the death of our father. Our mother made the brave decision to start over somewhere new after his death. We left our home in Alabama and made our way to southern California. Mother met and married a wonderful man who became our father in ever sense of the word.

     Barbara was a strong, yet tiny child with blue eyes and blond hair that danced in the sun. Our older brothers pestered her frequently, as brothers are apt to do. At the age of three, after becoming frustrated with them, she turned to them and said; “I’m just going outside to cool off.”  She spoke her mind even as a small child. This trait would never change.

     California remained her home for most of her life. She met and married a man with three sons. They became her sons as well. Her life was filled with children, her Church and an ever-changing pet family. She was a favorite Sunday school teacher and camp counselor to children. Her church family was very dear to her. Children were drawn to her, they knew she could be trusted with their hearts. It was the same for adults. She was always ready with a listening ear, a hug or a joke.

     One year on Fathers day, while preparing for a church breakfast for the men, she decided she would just go in her pajamas. She had a plan to make them laugh. She took her class along with her. They wore their pajamas too. The men were stunned and had a great laugh. They had learned to expect anything from Barbara. It was just her way.

     Her days were spent in the service of others. She began each day doing her housework before going to the church to set up her classroom. She was a full time mother and volunteered for the local women’s shelter as well. A crafter at heart, she enjoyed crocheting and various arts and crafts. Simple things like a night of bowling with her family were enough to complete her. Her life was, as she was, gentle with hints of whimsy.

     I was blessed that she was my sister. We remained best friends throughout our lives. It was our habit to talk daily. Each night before she went to bed I would expect her call. We would discuss the day and go over what tomorrow would bring. We supported each other as sisters and friends should.

     Barbara would say that she lived a good life. There were struggles of course, but nothing that her and faith could not withstand. When she was diagnosed with the Cancer that would take her from us, she thought only of others. Her will to survive and faith in God were strong, but she was fighting a battle she could not win. When it was decided that there would be no cure to save her, she apologized for not being able to beat it. She felt sorrow that she would not be here to help me with our aging parents. I struggled to convince her to let us take care of her. She thought only of others to the end. 

     My best friend was my sister. Occasionally I still find myself listening for her call. I am then struck by the weight of reality as I remember that the call won’t come. We are blessed to have been touched by her life. To write her legacy is simple. One word is all you need. Love.       

     

     Annie Thomas-Burke for Linda Butts-Worley and family

 

Tribute: The First Lady of Television Saturday, Jun 17 2006 

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The First Lady of Television

Lucille Desiree Ball

1911 – 1989

There are moments, as a television viewer, that we all share collectively. Lucy gave us many of those moments. Scenes that either touched our hearts or made us laugh. Few others had her gift for comedic timing. She had an amazing ability to tell a story with her facial expressions alone. We knew women who were like her characters; the housewife, the manipulator, the drama queen and even the femme fatale. We adored Lucy, just as she knew we would. We enjoyed every moment and looked forward to what Lucy would do each week.

Her place in history is firmly cemented, but not as an actress alone. Her contributions to women in film are profoundly felt. Lucy managed the successful production company Desilu. Desi held a lesser role, and when they divorced years later Lucy bought Desi’s share. She became the first female to head a production company in America. Her Desilu Productions went on to produce many hit sitcoms of the time. Among them were Make Room For Daddy, The Dick Van Dyke Show and Star Trek.

She had come a long way from the girl who was known as the “Queen of B’s”. Referring to her many B grade films of the thirties and forties. She was just happy to be working. Teachers and directors had cast her aside as an untalented actress. Undaunted, she took a job as a Chesterfield girl model. She was determined to break into show business. No one could hold Lucy back for long.

Her Mother and Grandparents in New York raised her after the death of her father at age three. Her mother was pregnant with her brother Fred at the time. Lucy spent many hours listening to radio shows while dreaming of an actress’s life. The radio was her training ground for the timing and delivery style that would later win her fame.

At fifteen she began traveling into New York City to audition for roles. She faced many rejections before any doors opened for her. Eventually Metro Goldwyn Mayer signed her to a contract and promptly dyed her sandy brown hair red. She would remain a red head for the rest of her life.

As a “Goldwyn Girl” she acted in dozens of small films with equally small roles. She was told that she wasn’t the leading lady type. On one such film titled, Too Many Girls she met Desi Arnaz and promptly eloped with him. It was Desi who urged her to audition for television roles.

She had fulfilled her childhood dream of being a radio show actress. It was her radio show role on My Favorite Husband that gave her the idea to pitch the same story line for a television show. Domestic comedies were just coming to television, and she wanted in on it. The executives however, did not like the choice of her husband as her leading man. They believed he wouldn’t be popular, and doubted if anyone would be able to understand his heavy accent. Lucy insisted that he would be a hit and set out to prove it to the executives. In true Lucy style she took the act on the road. When it was a sell out hit, the network relented and gave her a show.

It was as a comedian that Lucy truly came alive. Behind the comedian’s mask, she was rarely the clown that people assumed she was. Her producer’s skills were well honed. While we laughed at the, now classic, Vitameatavegamin skit and cried as she told Ricky she was “expecting”; behind the scenes Lucy lobbied for her show. She fought the executives to appear pregnant on television. Even going so far as to get religious leaders approval. They allowed the storyline in, but only if the word pregnant was not used. Lucy complied.

After several miscarriages, Lucy gave birth to a daughter that she named Lucie. She was 40 years old. A year later she gave birth to their son Desi. Ironically she was in labor with her son when the groundbreaking birth episode aired on the television show. Lucy struggled as a parent. The children would endure a tumultuous relationship with her throughout Lucy’s life. Lucy’s best friends included Ginger Rogers, Vivian Vance and other women that were childless. It was difficult for Lucy to balance the two sides of her life. She loved them deeply but didn’t fully connect with them.

Desi Sr. was becoming increasingly unmanageable as his drinking increased. It was decided that they would stop filming I Love Lucy while it was still a hit show. In time, Lucy and Desi would file for divorce. They remained dear friends for the rest of his life. Lucy would come to Desi’s aid many times over the years. He remained the one great love of her life.

In 1962 Gary Morton, a stand up comic 12 years her junior, became her second husband. They worked together at Desilu Productions. He became closely involved in the management of his wife's career. Gary also produced Lucy’s new show with Vivian Vance, The Lucy Show. America had missed her slapstick comedy on television and this show too, was a solid success.

Shortly thereafter, Lucy sold Desilu Productions and founded Lucille Ball Productions. She was a tough boss by all accounts. It was often remarked that she expected a lot from her employees. They also had to admit that she worked just as hard in return. Her strength as a female executive was met with unflattering remarks from male executives who struggled to keep the business strictly a men’s club. Her brash nature unsettled them. Her strength was intimidating.

While we do indeed love Lucy, it is the executive Lucille Ball that most women should learn from. Her commitment to equal rights in the film industry allows those who walk her paths today an easier stroll. While she struggled with motherhood in her private life, her pregnancy on the I Love Lucy Show was a lesson for all women. We learned that being pregnant didn’t mean you had to hide. You could be a mother and work too. We learned we could have the best of both worlds through her example.

As she settled into a quieter life, a little network television movie she agreed to be cast in became a critically acclaimed hit. The Stone Pillow showcased Lucy’s serious side. Her bag lady character struck a cord with viewers. This late success encouraged Lucy to star in another television comedy. She was saddened when it was not well received. It would be her last visit to our televisions in a series. She appeared on the 61st Annual Academy Awards show in March 1989. In April of that same year Lucy died.

For 25 years Lucille Ball ruled the television with a series of family comedies created to showcase her talents. She was a five-time Emmy award winner, the first woman inducted into the Television Academy's Hall of Fame, a recipient of a many awards and a Kennedy Center Honoree. She is perhaps the most adored of all television stars.

We are the recipients of her craft. Her work lives on and continues to make us smile. Technology allows us to share her gifts with our children. Her fan base grows as her talents transcend generations. We are still able to gather together and watch as Lucy stomps grapes, stuffs candy down her dress and causes Ricky to say yet again, “Lucy you have some splaining to do.”

Annie Thomas-Burke

Do you need a Professional Organizer? Wednesday, Jun 14 2006 

Do you need a Professional Organizer?



Do you need a Professional Organizer?
Maybe not…Tips for organizing your home and deciding if you
can do it alone.

© 2006, Annie Thomas-Burke

You have to ask yourself if you think you can do your organizing project on your own. Can you set up systems to keep your home organized? If not, maybe you do need a Professional Organizers help.

If you want to tackle this on your own. Go about it systematically. You will feel less overwhelmed by the task. Decide which room you want to start with. If necessary, break that down even further and decide which area of the room to begin with that day. Complete one room at a time. You will enjoy seeing the results of your hard work. Jumping from to room will only overwhelm you. Remember it always looks worse before it looks better.

1. Get a friend to help you. A, no-nonsense friend. This friend will be your "coach" he/she will be entrusted to ask the hard questions. Is this junk? Do you need it? Do you have room to keep it. You need someone who is willing to be firm but caring.

2. Gather things to sort your items into. Boxes, laundry baskets, crates. Label these for the sort. For instance, Trash, Other Room, Give Away, Keep. You'll need trashbags too.

3. Begin in one area and be tough with yourself. Limit how many pieces of a collection you will keep. Be honest in the process. If you really haven't worn that dress in three years. It is time to let it go.Continue sorting each area until it is finished. Do not take items to other rooms during the sort. Stay in this zone only.

4. If necessary, set up appointments with yourself to get the tasks completed. Your home is important. You deserve a nice place that doesn't cause you stress. Keep your appointments to complete the project.

5. Don't buy organizing products. Wait until after the sort. You wont know until after the sorting process, what you actually need. Have a yard sale and use the funds you earn to buy a quick new paint color and organizing supplies.

6. Closed solid boxes are preferable to clear containers for storing papers, CD's, DVD?s and photos, they offer less visual clutter. Be sure to buy acid free products for document storage.

7. Think out of the box, many items sold for kitchen storage are excellent for other areas of the house. Drawer organizers, cutlery trays and stands, magnetic rails and baskets. Look around before deciding on the more expensive options.

8. You cant expect to get it finished in one day. Tired? Ok, stop for the day, but take out the trash first. This will keep you from having purger?s remorse. You wont be tempted to retrieve anything from the trash at one AM.

9. Think about how you really live in each room. Set it up to reflect that. If you take your shoes off at the door and they become an unsightly pile. Buy a storage item for that area. If you put down your keys, mail, cell phone etc… at the nearest counter. Put a decorative bowl or basket there.

10. Most importantly, Address the issues that keep you disorganized. Realize that previous habits may need to be relearned. In order to keep you new rooms organized, changes in behavior must be made. You'll feel pride instead of shame. Forgive yourself for the way it was. Vow to live better. Have a party and celebrate!

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Annie Thomas-Burke is a Freelance Writer and Designer.
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Thirteen Tips To Help Get Your Kids Organized: Monday, Jun 5 2006 

A Bakers Dozen, Thirteen Tips To Help Get Your Kids Organized:
By Annie Thomas-Burke

We all know that we want to be a good example to our kids. What habits will they grow up with as they watch our organizational behaviors? If we don’t respectfully put away our things, why should they? It’s not difficult to get them involved. They want to improve the rooms they live in. Ask them if they would like a new paint color and watch how excited they get at the choices you just gave them. Choice is at the heart of it all. They want to be able to decide. they love being given that authority. Lets encourage that!

1. Let Them Help! Let them tell you what they are ready to get rid of. Often it is the adults that are more attached to the memory of the item than the child. Keep only those things that you both cant live without.

2. Sort, Toss, Donate. They should be a part of the organizing process. When purging items, have kids pick out their favorite toys and discard the old, out grown or broken ones. Give good used toys to a local charity. Kids love knowing they are helping someone else. Donate clothes too.

3. Use clear plastic containers with hinged lids, for storing small toys. Make the storage age appropriate using labels with pictures instead of words for young children. Let them help make the labels. Use filing boxes for awards, cards and reports. Make one file for each child.

4. One In / One Out. Utilize this important organizing rule. One in One out simply means, if you bring home one new toy or one new pair of shoes, you should be willing to give one of the same away.

5. Use low sturdy shelving for toys and books. Create separate areas for toys, games, books, art supplies etc… Let your kids tell you what works best for them. Containerize and label it all clearly.

6. Use Hanging Systems. Install low shelving in closets or rod hanging systems for clothes they can reach themselves. Use a hanging sweater keeper to decide on outfits for each weekday in advance. Your child only needs to take the clothes off the shelf to be ready. No searching. No stress in the morning.

7. Store Keepsakes. Everything doesn't have to be displayed all at once. Some items may be rotated in and out of long term storage. Store these and out of season clothes high up on closet shelves in clear boxes.

8. Buy A Hamper. Place a laundry hamper inside your child's room. There are many fun and decorative hampers on the market today. Let your child choose one that matches their rooms décor. Expect it to be used.

9. Use Hooks. Install low-hanging hooks for clothes, backpacks and accessories. Install on the back of a door or inside a closet wall. This helps to lessen the visual clutter that kids rooms are known for.

10. Honor Their Accomplishments. Use interchangeable acrylic frames to highlight artwork or good reports from school. Kids love to see that you are proud of them. Change out the pictures periodically and keep the best pieces in your keepsake file.

11. Use Vertical Space. Use shelving one foot from the ceiling all the way around the room to display those things that are fragile or collections. Periodically reevaluate the items to see if they need to be transferred to long term storage or donated to charity.

12. Utilize An Action Center. Use an In and Out Box system for papers that need signed, or their invitations to events. Kids learn quickly where their papers need to go in order to get them signed. They experience less stress and so do you.

13. Time Them. Use a timer and small rewards to motivate kids to tidy their spaces. Make it a fun time for you all. Encourage them to keep it tidy by allowing them some control on how the room is set up. The color, the theme and the age range. Let them tell you what they are ready for and work with them to make it happen for them.

Annie Thomas-Burke, Author and Designer annieb43@charter.net Reclaimed Spaces http://www.designsbyannieb.com

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